People say, "They speak what they think about others." They flex it. They say they are bitter, but not sugarcoated.
Is it something to flex? Is it something to feel proud of?
No.
Being impulsive is not honesty. It is lack of control.
If you have guts, then speak wrong about yourself. Have guts to criticize yourself. Accept your follies. Don't filter yourself to be perfect. That needs real courage. Confront how you feel and what you think.
It will give you courage to face your own dark side.
What people call blunt is often sadism. They feel pleasure in giving pain to others — no matter if it is physical or psychological. And psychological pain is more deadly. It harms more. It stays longer.
But there is another side too.
We should be strong enough not to get affected by others easily. Be unaffected. Untouchable. Let them not hijack you. Don't give power to their words.
Someone's opinion about you is not your truth. Only your awareness is your truth.
And this balance — not hurting others and not getting hurt by others comes only when we surrender to the Supreme Consciousness. Breaking the constraints of mind and body is very important.
Only then we are free.
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