Do we need to comprehend others? Do we need to know who they are and what they like a lot? Do we really need?
No, not at all.
Let them be who or what they are. Let them be. They are possibilities. They will create their own beliefs, their own ideas, their own principles. They too are God's manifestation. Let them be their own type. And let your mind be free of their thoughts.
We burden our minds too much by trying to understand and control everyone. And burdening our mind will never serve the purpose. Not for us, and not for them.
For example, if your child is not going as per your line of thought, you should not try to control him or her. It will cause more problems. When a person feels his freedom is curtailed, he cannot do anything in life.
Let them be of their own type. It is their life, so let them explore.
All you need to do is to provide them a disciplined environment. But discipline doesn't mean military discipline. No, that will cause more harm.
Discipline means to let them know what is right and wrong for their body, mind and existence. Let them know this only. Rest, they will do themselves.
If they have phone addiction, don't control them with harshness. And don't abandon them either. Stay as a lamp — show them the harm so vividly, so truthfully, that their own intelligence says no. But don't use harsh words. If you use harsh words, they will start hating you. You will become the villain of their life, and then they will do everything that disturbs you from inside.
And they know you better — they know how you get triggered, how to disturb you. First they will destroy themselves, and then they will destroy you. Beware!
So let your mind be free.
Let them be. Let it be.
In that letting-be, both are free — you and they. And only in freedom can anyone find their origin.
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